I did not promise a refund. I was put on the spot.
After just reading the text after walking out of a meeting I was taken by surprise and felt pretty bad so I said we'd work something out. You text me at around 7pm 1/5/15. You then didn't respond to me for over 12 hours and in these 12 hours I sent you a message via PM on here detailing my stance on the issue after actually thinking about it. I'm not legally bound nor do I feel honour bound to offer this refund I mentioned.
The wheel was sold as seen. There was opportunity to inspect the wheel. It was not sold on an approval basis (I.e go away check it and then get your money back if not happy.) No matter what you say you had the wheel for six days. You COULD of damaged it in this time- no way of proving otherwise. 1.5mm is within the tolerance for true, I was informed it was true by a mechanic and because of this described it as true. Have since researched and found that carbon wheels (HED. ZIPP etc) are never perfectly true and 1.5mm for a Tri spoke still conforms to factory standards!
I'm sorry if you have different standards to the industry regarding the tolerance of wheels- you had the opportunity to check it when I took the 100mile trip to meet you in person. You paid £180 for a 20 year old wheel and you seem to want 0mm movement (something that is not guaranteed in brand new £850 HED wheels.)
I have made my position very clear to BadManLongTime and I have nothing more to say on the matter.