Echoing the above, get the back end sorted before the front: as well as being decent seatposts, these are cheap, available in black or silver and a wide range of sizes.
Is the saddle uncomfortable or just the wrong colour? A cut-out is beneficial to women as well as men: a friend (woman) has a Flite Trans Am she would sell, or there's a Brooks Cambium Carved available in the classifieds at the moment [cough].
SRAM levers have reach adjustment and following Rodolfo's advice would help too. Zipp make short reach bars if you can't get there with a sensible stem.
Have a play around with this: assuming you have a 10mm under the stem, then a 17° stem would reduce the reach by 9mm and raise it by 15mm.
Coloured saddles rarely work IMHO and you won't see it when you're riding. All black everything then make a splash with the handlebar tape (but I'd rather have "proper" tape, leather).