For indyref #1 I started off as a no, but had some sympathy for independence. In the end, I ended up voting yes. One part of my calculus was: EU membership for iScotland would likely happen shortly after independence, thus travel/trade etc with former UK would be fine.
Should there be indyref #2, who knows? With everything going on, I don't have the brain space to think about such things. (TBH I am hoping that there isn't going to be a referendum too soon, even though my starting position would be a yes)