@Evell - I always try and make things right if I've made a mistake but you were simply being unreasonable.
As I explained, I posted the rings, the stem/handlebar, and two of the other free items (including the 3ttt stem you mention) to you absolutely free (cost me £6.50) for a grand total of £38. You then asked me for a refund of £30 for the rings as you hadn't bothered to look at the pictures. I simply said that didn't seem reasonable as I was moving and wouldn't have time to resell, they were as per the pics and description, and that if I gave you £30 I would have sold you 3 items for a pound, and lost and hour of my life posting it to you in the process.
You then had the gall to lecture me about the spirit of the community. So you'll excuse me if I'm not in a hurry to deal with you any further.