^^ Good move Luci.
It was well observed and written, but I think it could only be part of bigger piece pulling out the issues.
As it was it could have been deeply humiliating to the entirely blameless person stuck in the middle of it, should they ever have read it.
Still, made me think and if I'm honest feel pretty uncomfortable in my shoes. The underlying issues run pretty deep.
Annnnd....I'm off to the memes thread to look at pictures of cats for a while.